Re: [美加] 外國人分手
看板CultureShock (文化衝擊)作者feoteng2003 (Night for day)時間17年前 (2007/06/16 01:19)推噓10(10推 0噓 60→)留言70則, 7人參與討論串8/16 (看更多)
我一點都不訝異護航文的出現 畢竟每個人看到的現實不同
我當然相信有很多美國人願意下去幫忙
但是也請你相信
那些例子就是曾經發生過 而且確實我在台灣族群裡很少見的
否則我沒必要提出來
人本來就是互相幫助的群體動物 這件事並非在每個社會都是被默認的
至少在程度上而言 人基本上應該獨立自助 才是我在美國看到的普遍思想
※ 引述《a9a99 (有個人來愛還是比較好)》之銘言:
: : 舉個例子 如果你在下大雨的夜晚 開車去送蛋糕給男友
: : 但是沒有帶傘 所以你在車上打電話給男友 問能不能拿傘下來接你
: : 如果有台灣男生敢拒絕 一定是被罵到翻
: : 但是我三個朋友得到的答案是
: : 寶貝 我真的不想出去 我知道你自己可以的
: : 這三個男友分別是 葡萄牙人 美國人 和法國人
: 坦白講 不去接的應該是特例
: 正常的狀況應該要下去接
: 不管是不是女朋友(他還拿蛋糕給你ㄟ) 還是一般朋友
: 有需要幫忙 沒什麼好拒絕
: 人本來就是互相幫助的群體動物
: 連這個小忙都不幫 以後在一起會怎樣 你可以想像
: 因為獨立不幫的範圍會逐漸擴大
: 幫幫別人 這不是獨不獨立的問題 而是那些自私人的藉口
: 我相信在這樣的狀況下 大部分的外國人都是會幫的
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